Call Me Petty & A Little Immature

Why am I such a bad fighter when it come to my domestic fights. For instance I was mad at Cody one morning so when he got up to take a shower I ran around the house turning on all the hot water faucets i.e the bathrooms, the kitchen sink, the dish washer, and the washing machine. I took pleasure in the fact that he was no doubt taking a cold shower. And just last night he asked me to go somewhere with him. I wanted to go. But instead I turned down the offer just because I was mad. Do other married couples do this? Am I alone out there in my immature bubble?